Thinking
more about what happened in Newtown. I heard about the family of one of the
victims; they issued a statement that said that they were praying for the
family of the murderer. That’s not the only time I’ve heard about that kind of
unfathomable forgiveness. There was a lady whose daughter was killed by a drunk
driver. She not only forgave the guy but now tours the country with him,
speaking to groups about how real the dangers of drunk driving are. Every once
in a while you’ll hear about stories like this, where the family of some
murdered son or daughter publicly forgives the murderer.
While I
was at home over Christmas my dad and I started talking about Sandy Hook and
how horrible it was. He then brought up the Biblical story of Ahab and Naboth’s
vineyard. King Ahab wants the land of this Israelite named Naboth so that he
can have a garden close to his palace, but Naboth says no. So Ahab gets and his
wife, Queen Jezebel notices. She asks what the problem is and when he tells
her, she says “Is this how a king acts? Cheer up, I’ll get that vineyard for
you!”So she arranges for a couple of people to give false testimony saying that
Naboth committed blasphemy. He’s tried, convicted and executed for a crime that
never happened just so that Ahab could get some land. Naboth had family. He was
a son, he had parents, and, in all likelihood, brothers and sisters, maybe sons
and daughters who loved him, a wife. He had friends, people who cared for him,
and suddenly he is ripped out of their hands so that some guy on a power trip,
a guy who already has more land than he knows what to do with, doesn’t have to
walk so far for his carrots.
So, Elijah,
a prophet of God, comes and confronts Ahab with what he’s done. Ahab begins to
feel guilty and he repents, asks God for forgiveness. What happens next,
though, is beyond comprehension. God forgives him.
God
forgives, it’s what He does. He is irritatingly, irrationally, maddeningly
gracious, and although we can’t truly be sure of what the state of Adam Lanza’s
soul is right now; we can be sure that if he had asked God for forgiveness, God
would have forgiven him.
That is
nearly unthinkable.
That is
who God is.
God is
right.
As much
as we don’t want or like to think about it; murderers are humans. Just like all
who sin – murderers, rapists, thieves, liars, dictators, and all the rest –
they’re all humans. They all had mothers who looked down into their eyes and
wondered in amazement at the life in their hands. They all had fears, hopes,
things that made them happy and sad. Many of them had genetic or psychological
problems that they had no control over which caused imbalances that they didn’t
know how to handle. Some went through horrible and abnormal circumstances that
caused them to approach reality with a psychological limp. Others were just
like you or I who made one seemingly rational decision after another,
following, in baby steps, a path that anyone of us, under similar
circumstances, might have followed. Walk a mile . . . They are people. People
that God made, who God loved, and who God died for.
We as a
society love progress. We like to think that generation after generation we are
building toward something. Something good; something righteous. I believe that
what we are building toward, whether we know it and admit it or not, is utopia.
We all want to live in a world where we love our work, where suffering is at a minimum,
where people don’t die too young, where evil doesn’t threaten our lives, etc.
etc. But we will never reach that utopia until we understand, as a society,
that God and His irrational forgiveness is right.
By
definition, utopia is a place where evil does not exist, or is, at least, kept
to a minimum. To de-humanize is evil. To forget that criminals are humans is
evil. Forgiveness is a necessary component of utopia, and we can never build
that perfect society without it. Further, we cannot embody God’s Spirit if we
cannot follow in His forgiveness. The parable of the servants and their debt
comes to mind. We cannot rightfully call ourselves Christians if we don’t
follow in the steps of Him who died for liars, thieves and murderers.
God
forgave Ahab.
God was
right.